or do CHEATERS ALWAYS PROSPER!
well lets take a quick look at it ok.SO as a cheater not only do you get your significant other meaning G/f, B/F, husband, or wife meaning wife, husband, g/f, or b/f) but you also get your side dish (meaning lover).WHO knows there might even be a couple side dishes. Now if that isn't PROSPEROUS than i dont know what is.Having your cake and eating it too!
Now what makes a person cheat! now if we knew that answer than maybe we could stop our SIGNIFICANT OTHERS from straying.I do know this.....the person who is doing the cheating is a very INTERESTING person! mean really the type of person who can lead a double life, and sometimes maybe even a triple life has to be interesting. I mean think about it.... How do you keep all your stories straight?? how do you keep all parties involved from finding out? How do u keep names straight? What do u say to your significant other when your lover calls you at 3am??? what do you say when they look at your cell phone bill and see a certain number being called a lot?? i mean think about it thats a tough thing. Being a liar is HARD WORK!!!!!!! i am not trying to GLORIFY cheaters at all i am just curious as to how their minds function. you can say it interests me. I am interested in how a person can keep up such a thing, it has to be exhausting!!!!!!!
the cheaters that interest me the most are the cheaters who are open about being in a relationship and still want you to be with them. THOSE ARE THE BEST... you can't fault them for being honest now can you?? NO SECRETS!!! They are the brave ones... however in the same sense they are the biggest chickens ever, because god FORBID their significant other finds out. They are honest with the LOVER, but TOTALLLLLLY lying to the one they love. Kinda strange huh?? shouldnt it be the other way around??? wait what am i saying. They shouldn't even be cheating at all! what i've come to notice on my short time on this earth is that people cheat everyday... Men cheat, women cheat, lawyers cheat, doctors cheat, musicians cheat, gas station workers cheat, fast food workers cheat, receptionists cheat, dog catchers cheat. Asians cheat, mexicans cheat, whites cheat, blacks cheat, there is no specific type of person that cheats! No matter how much money you make, and no matter what area you live in, there is someone around you that is being unfaitful to their significant other.
I know of people who have been married for years and come to find out one person was cheating on the other... why did they stay together? well cause being together is all they knew!
what about the statement "ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER" is that true? i don't think so. it may be in some cases but i honestly do feel that people do deserve a 2nd chance and you cant fault them for something that happened! Its up to the individual though. I know a girl who took her man back 5 times after he cheated on her. Now they are married and have 2 kids. Does he still cheat? who knows, but they are happy and in love NOW! so what brought on this interest in cheaters...well lets just say that lately it has been a topic of conversation amongst friends. would i ever cheat? i would hope not!!!!!!!!! cause karma will bite me in the rear end!!!!now i pose you with a few questions....
1. lets say you are a SINGLE person.... and you hook up with someone who is in a relationship and you KNOW they are in a relationship... does that make you a CHEATER??? and what if they lie and say they are single?? seperated?? things that make you go Hmmmm...
2. Lets say you are in a relationship and you want to bring in a 3rd person, now your significant other may not feel comfortable with it but agrees because they love you and want to please you. Now lets say you the one who brought up the idea of a 3some now goes out and cheats.... do you use the 3some as a justification for cheating??? WHY should your significant other mind if you cheat?? i mean you did have a 3some hello!! (there are people that think that way)
3. Why is it that a person who cheats is always the paranoid one. The one accusing their significant other of cheating?? When they are the one creeping??
4. Does being out of state or the country justify a cheater?? Different area code = a green light to cheat?
5. Why be in a committed relationship if you KNOW you can't be faithful?? just be a single person all your life then you are free to DO anyone you please without hurting someone elses feelings!!!!
6. the best question ever... WHAT MAKES A PERSON BECOME A CHEATER???
7. Why do people get mad at the person who is the "LOVER" because sometimes they dont even know.... both parties need to equally get an ear full!!! don't discriminate! let them both have it!
8. Your significant other cheats...... you then turn around and cheat... does that make it right??
*irene*
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